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entity Updated 2026-08-08 Tags: Psychology, Psychotherapy, Relationships, Mental-Health

龚学平 / Gong Xueping

龚学平 / Gong Xueping is the psychotherapist interviewed in EP273 NPC还是NPD，都别想拿走我们人生的遥控器, a [[TalkSanlian|Talk三联]] episode on NPD language, painful relationships, and taking back one’s “life remote control.” The source describes her as an independently practicing counselor in Beijing with more than ten years of experience.

Her role in the wiki is to anchor a diagnosis-aware but experience-centered account of [[PopularNPDDiscourse|popular NPD discourse]]. She keeps “NPD” from becoming a casual label for every unpleasant person while still taking seriously the relational pain people are trying to name: being controlled, instrumentalized, ignored, or made to doubt one’s own value.

Key Claims

  • NPD should remain a clinical term, but public use of the label often points to real experiences of exploitation, emotional depletion, and control.
  • The useful question is not only “what is wrong with the other person” but “when did I give this person the power to decide my worth.”
  • [[TherapyRelationshipAndBoundaries|Therapy]] works partly by slowing down a lived scene until ignored emotion becomes noticeable.
  • People cannot own a better past, but they can change future behavior through small, repeated acts of judgment and self-return.

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