严氏 / Lady Yan (Lü Bu)

严氏 / Lady Yan (Lü Bu) enters the wiki through Hanji 987 as 吕布’s wife in the reception scene after Lü Bu loses 定陶之战 and flees to 刘备 in 徐州. The source says Lü Bu invites Liu Bei into his tent, seats him on Lady Yan’s bed, and has Lady Yan salute him before hosting a banquet.

The page is source-scoped because the episode does not develop Lady Yan as an independent actor. Her importance is that the gesture around her makes Lü Bu’s social misreading visible. By mixing a private marital space, female household ritual, public guest reception, and overly familiar address to Liu Bei, Lü Bu creates the etiquette breach that the host says makes Liu Bei inwardly unhappy.

Connections

• 吕布 - husband whose reception conduct defines the source scene.
• 刘备 - guest placed in an awkward public/private boundary.
• 定陶之战 and 徐州 - defeat and refuge setting.
• 权力礼仪细读 - concept extended by the scene.