小S / Xiao S

小S appears in 129.如何成为真正的不完美主义者，浑身是劲儿！ as an important example of visible imperfection and public self-acceptance. [[QinZong|秦总]] says her experience watching [[KangxiLaile|《康熙来了》]] helped her see that a woman could be funny, loose, not perfectly correct, not perfectly beautiful, and still occupy the stage with confidence.

The source uses 小S less as a celebrity biography than as a practical counter-image to gendered Perfectionism As Avoidance. Her role connects public performance to Female Self-Possession: the point is not to become careless, but to loosen the demand that a woman must maintain a flawless image before being visible.

Connections

• [[KangxiLaile|《康熙来了》]] - show context for the source’s Xiao S example.
• Perfectionism As Avoidance - pressure pattern her example counters in the episode.
• Female Self-Possession - adjacent wiki concept around women occupying desire, speech, and action without full permission.
• Concrete Self-Praise and Imperfect Action Practice - practical branch that her example helps support.
• [[MihuanChishu|蜜獾吃书]] and [[QinZong|秦总]] - source context.